One wise old man was sitting on the road side in front of a village. One passenger was passing the road, he asked from the old man, I left my village and want settle in this village what kind of people are living in this village? Wise old man asked from the passenger, what kind of people were living in your village, the passenger answered; “there are living meanness, cruel, characterless people.
Wise old man said “here is also that kind of people living”
That passenger went. After some time one other passenger came, old man was sitting at that place, he asked from old man, what kind of people is living in this village?
Old man also asked from him, what kinds of people were living in your village? The passenger said “in our village living, kind, lovely, gentle, and good people” old man said “here are also you can find that kind of people.
“Generally we are not looking world, as it is, but we are looking world as we are, often it’s happen the behavior of people opposite of our behavior, if our in-tension's are not good, then we will think that other people in-tension's also not good. “Jan shokera”
Which kind of thought we are keeping about other’s they are also keeping this kind of thought about us. If we will think on good manner about others, adopt plus manner, keep good conduct’s help other's in their work, make good relation with others, respect other’s then they also think in good manner about us, adopt good manner, they respect us as well as they how we respect them, if we will think negative about other’s, adopt negative manner, show that they are from lower class, we are from greater class, don't respect them, which kind of conduct we will elect with other’s they also elect that kind of conduct with us, we are misunderstanding that if we will have much money, we will rich then other people respect us. I don’t under stand that people respect us if we have much money. No anyone respect other for its money, but people respect other about their behavior. If one person behavior is good then people respect him. If one person doesn’t have good behavior he must have much money, people not interesting with him.
If you will take interest with other people then they also take interest with you.
I haved a cabin in 1994 in Ukraine, every day I bought things from wholesales shops. There was one whole sale company near of our hostel; the company brings things from Poland. One day I went buy some things from this company. At that time labors were absent, but the owner of company was there, I said him, I need things for a shop. I gave him money, he separated things and carried with me and put it in the motor car. Motor car was parked from company about hundred meters. Beside this he haved about twenty cabins many buses, about fifty labors’s worked with him but he was a simple man, his behavior was good with people, he didn’t thank that he is greater then others. He was rich man, but weared simple cloths. One day I sat in a local bus. I saw a man also sitting in that local bus, he was owner of that company, he was young and simple. Certainly to earn much money it is not so big action, but after the earning money which kind of behavior you take with people it is important, because with money you can buy good things, but you can’t buy good friend, with money you can build a big building, but with money you can’t buy respect.
Therefore greater Napoleon Ill said;
You change your thoughts then every thing will changes automatically around of your world”.
Certainly which kind of relation we make with the people and in which position we will meet the people, we also will get that kind of result. If we think that they are characterless, indecent, wicked, immoral and unrespectable. Then what you think, they through on you flowers, certainly not, they also keep that kind of conduct with you. To leave with respect in the world for this behavior is playing big roll.
Change your thoughts, think goodness of people, make good relation with people, make your own play mind, help other’s in their works, listen people, if any one teas you, don't answer him, if you answered him its mean you and he is equal, if you not answered him then your are great man .
“One scholar said” peoples didn't known (recognize) from there words, they known (recognize) from there character, you are impressed in the views of the people, every day you are on check and balance. People are looking and checking your every step, because you are member of the society. Your every step will grow good are bad moments. The society isn't interested with your wealth, but it's interested with your existence. First you must know yourself, and get control on self, in your behavior there’s an acquaintance of your future.
“What kind of behavior you make with other people they also make with you that kind of behavior”.
Written by Shaikof Baloch